The Man with a Plan
What you really had in mind. I'm now the guy I wish I was when I was 30. Hot artistic career (as a writer), plenty of money, in great physical shape, very much at home in my own skin. It often takes quite a while to make all these come together, however, and so it has been in my case, too. But when they do, as they have in my case, ain't life grand?
Young, sexy, very bright. Educated is good (I have 4 degrees myself, 3 of them advanced ones), sense of humor, especially if it's a bit offcenter and driven by a keen mind is, too. On the sex side: that basic let'sdoit attitude, of course, but leavened by the ability and desire to talk, too.