Tender AND ferocious!
I am 43 but haven't entered my mid life crisis (yet)! I am actually hitting my stride now. I am looking for someone who isn't offended by my straightforward nature. I am intense, love to laugh, can hold my own in any conversation, and I try to be humble and receptive. I love intimacy, the touching of skin to skin; the exchanging of fluids, kissing, holding, and someone who is non possessive. I believe in being free with another person and letting that person be free; freedom to come and go, to say what they like or dislike, etc.
I believe in creating or helping to enhance a non threatening and safe environment for all who come in contact with me. However, if done wrong I can become their worse nightmare. But I rarely become this way with women, only with men. I like being friends with women yet I am not gay. I want to make that connection on some level before engaging in wild sex. It may only take a hello, or eye contact, or two weeks of idle conversation. Life is short and I have always believed you must enjoy what you can while you're here on this earth.